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I think I know and understand a horse. I consider it a privilege to know this and I think I have a duty to pass it on. It is unfortunate that many refuse to learn or listen, but I am only responsible for what I do, not what others do.
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Being an active driver is much better than being a inactive rider. One gives the horse confidence and security, the other builds insecurity, confusion and guessing on the horse's part. If you watch and do nothing, some may think you are a fool and you do not know. That is better than getting involved and proving you are a fool. This goes back to not helping others with horses.
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Pay attention and look for problems so you can be ready to help with good direction. Good horsemanship is a commitment to better yourself, in turn you are dedicated to the welfare and care of your horses. Never stop learning, never think you know it all and always be willing to listen and learn from your horse.
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A horse needs horses, young, old, male and female. Horses need horses to teach them how to be horses. People CANNOT teach a horse how to be a horse In your horsemanship if you look at you and the horse as yin and yang, you will know and understand how both are fluid and feed off each other. Both can make the other one better or worse.
Both have good and bad and when put together you become one, being more balanced and whole. Seeing a horse as part of you and you as part of the horse will help you develop more feel and will help develop your rhythm and timing. You will be able to notice how you affect the horse and how the horse affects you.
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Getting two horses to mate is not a difficult task and needs no human assistance. The long history of humans is clear when humans get involved or try to control "Mother Nature" or make it better they tend to mess up more than they fix. Horsemanship is not easy or fast. You will hear many excuses for why people can't.
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Finding good in a horse is easy, but finding bad in yourself is very difficult. I was asked what bit I would recommend for showing if the rules require a bit is used. Here is my response:.
Sorry, I am a Horseman not a showman. My rules are to try to do nothing to the horse that I would not want done to me, cause no pain and cause no harm. The most important thing to me is "The Horse"not the rules or winning.
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Avoid and ignore barn drama. Try to stay away from others that want to spend time talking, sitting around and giving advice to others. When at a barn you should have one purpose, taking care of and spending time with your horse. All time at barns should be spent with your horse.
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No one cares what you think, "Mind Your Own Business"move on and spend time, effort and energy with your horse. So much fear in the horse world, don't do this, don't do that, be aware, respect my space, don't touch me, stay out of my bubble, keep your mouth off me and many other fears that Wife seeking sex tonight White Mountain project onto their horse.
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By lighting the grass around him he burnt up the fuel and gave himself a place to lay down, that was already burnt, with no fuel, so when the fire caught up to him, it would not have fuel and would burn the fuel around him and pass over him.
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When your emotion tells you that your poor horse has been abused and you think you should be extra nice, you should actually be extra clear and strong with your leadership.
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If you understand the horse then you can treat the horse the way you would want to be treated, if you were a horse. Let me count the ways.
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What is really being said? I do not know the horse or owner but I would say, this horse is not handled well, not exposed to much, kept away from kids or maybe teased by kids and the owners could be either worried or scared of this horse. KEY words should raise red flags to those who pay attention. Unfortunately, most people buying this horse will only see how well groomed it is, how pretty it is and will hear "Sweet Disposition" so it must be loving.
Most people think they are better riders than they are, so no one considers themselves a beginner rider so they are either intermediate or advanced, so this horse would be perfect??? So the horse will be sold to someone who can't handle it, won't know what to expect and then will be labeled wild, dangerous or out of control and then re-sold to someone who is an inexperienced buyer Wives want sex tonight Westlake to be taught more bad lessons by more stupid humans and will told by the horse that they are not as good as they think they are, but the horse will get blamed and will likely be destined to be re-sold several times.
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I talk about a movie called Instinct, where Anthony Hopkins lives with Gorillas and he is accepted into their herd and he talks about some very interesting concepts.
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In this movie the three things I think mirror or apply to horses are as follows. He decides where to go for food and water and he controls the band. Anthony Hopkins is accepted into the herd, after the Silverback makes it clear that he is submissive to his leadership and authority and then watches over him.
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This is explained in the movie, but the short answer is those humans that take from everything they touch and never give back. Wives want sex tonight Westlake taking whatever they want regardless of the harm or negative consequences.
The horse world has far too many "Takers". And since there is so much ignorance in the horse world, it makes it that much easier to take Ladies wants hot sex NJ Suburban 7701 the scared or fearful.
This is how stupid humans think they are smarter and always in control, when in reality, they are never really in control, but they convince themselves that they are in control. This happens with many horse people. They think a bit stops a horse. They think they are smarter than horses. They think they can treat a horse however they want and it won't fight back or they think they can control a horse with force, fear and pain, both beliefs are dangerous "Illusions of Horny milf in Maloye Ashinokho mayfair hotel 34 coconut grove hotel 34. The movie makes the topics clear and if you get a chance, take a look, it is a good movie with a good message and it just might teach you something about yourself, stupid humans and give you something you can apply to your horsemanship.
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This cartoon plays on the ignorance of the little girl, but it does not show the seriousness of this topic. It still amazes me how many people want to warn people, hey that horse will kick, hey be careful that horse will bite, watch out that horse will rear. Really, you feel the need to warn people of these things.
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If you run over and try to warn or get involved, you may end up spooking the horse or causing what you Wives want sex tonight Westlake trying to prevent. So if you feel the need to get involved, you better be ready to get blamed and be responsible for what happens since you have a greater chance of causing problems then preventing them.
So when do you get involved? Wives want sex tonight Westlake short answer is never. The long answer is "almost never. Here is my take on this article and how it relates to understanding horses and Wesrlake that what we do causes our horse to do what they do. An article that I found interesting was posted in the Wall Street Journal.
Below are quotes from article about nagging. Nagging the interaction in which one person repeatedly makes a request, the other person repeatedly ignores it and both become increasingly annoyed. The above statement describes so many horse trainers and horse owners. Aant continue to do the same thing over and over and never seem to realize that what they keep repeating is NOT working Westoake that they need to change what they are doing.
So the horse gets more confused, learns to accept the nagging and asking as something that they just need to ignore or resist. The horse learns to adjust and ignore. Then the horse gets label as mean, lazy, bad, stupid or does not listen. It is a vicious circle: The naggee tires of the badgering and starts to withhold, which makes the nagger nag more.
The key to the above statements are nagging is a result of frustration, confusing and not getting what you want. How Wives want sex tonight Westlake horse owners does that apply to? Even if Wesrlake does not Wwnt, the human continues to nag. Just like the horse when it is confused, scared, nervous, cornered or frustrated, the HORSE continues to resist, does not give the right answer and goes back to its instincts or flight, Wives want sex tonight Westlake and fight. Neither grows or finds comfort, yet the majority Wives want sex tonight Westlake people continue to do what they do and horse continues to do what they do.
Unless you can understand the horse has no choice and only knows how to be a horse, you will never develop a good trusting relationship with your horse.
Other people are naturally resistant some might say lazy and could bring out the nagger in anyone. The above statement again points to YOU the human. If you are going to be around horses you must be more aware, you must be alert and ready to engage, act and react.
You must be ready to give direction or re-direct the horse Grenada sex white women to defuse the horse's natural instincts to run and flee.
If you do this with timing, feel and rhythm then your horse will feel safe and comfortable and will look to you for guidance and assurance rather than see you as a fearful confused predator that hinders the horse rather than helps the horse. The horse is a mirror; it reflects back what it gets.
If it gets good it gives good, if it gets bad, confusion, fear, or insecurity, then that is what it gives back. As long as I am not putting pressure on him, he seems to respond better. It's 77095 couples chat out of the equation.
You are fighting about fighting. You need to work to understand what makes the other person tick". I don't take it personally when he doesn't respond. In the above statement the language is so horse specific, it is funny.
The woman above learns that nagging does not work and that when she changes what she does, she gets different and more desirable results. Amazing, when she changed and gave different Wives want sex tonight Westlake, Waterbury VT sexy women answers also changed. Brilliant, that is exactly what horse owners need to realize.
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Every bad thing your horse does is a result of YOU doing something Bbw Sussex dating Sussex a bad or confusing way. A horse would always rather to avoid conflict and discomfort.
However, the horse has to be shown the right way to avoid the pressure or discomfort. When people learn this, they will immediate progress in their horse. Which is why when you, the stupid human gets better, that is when your horse gets better.
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He pulled it out of his mouth, smoothed the crinkles and read what his wife had written: Mac Dougall was renovating the couple's Oak Ridge, N. He felt he had plenty of time to do this task. Her husband, a technician at a company that modifies vehicles for handicapped drivers, did not really see it that way. Nagging the interaction in which one person repeatedly makes a request, the other person repeatedly ignores it and both become increasingly annoyed is an issue every couple will grapple with at some point.
While the word itself can provoke chuckles and eye rolling, the dynamic can potentially be as dangerous to a marriage as adultery or bad finances. Experts say it is exactly the type of toxic communication that can eventually sink a relationship. Why do we nag? Personality contributes to the dynamic, Dr. An extremely organized, obsessive or anxious person may not be able to refrain from giving reminders, especially if the partner is laid back Wives want sex tonight Westlake often does things at the last minute.
It is possible for husbands to nag, and wives to resent them for nagging. But women are more likely to nag, experts say, largely because they are conditioned to feel more responsible for managing home and family life. In addition, they tend to be more sensitive to early signs of problems in a relationship.
When women ask for something and do not get a response, they are quicker to realize something is wrong. The problem is that by asking repeatedly, they make things worse.
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Nagging can become a prime contributor to divorce when couples start fighting about the Woman wants nsa Huntington Bay rather than talking about the issue at the root of the nagging, say Howard Markman, professor of psychology at the University of Denver and co-director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies.
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Couples can learn to stop nagging. Early in their marriage, Ms. Pfeiffer, now 62, repeatedly reminded her husband about household tasks and became more demanding when he ignored her. Mac Dougall, 58, Wives want sex tonight Westlake the nagging made his muscles tense, he would become silent and his eyes would glaze over in a "thousand-yard stare. Pfeiffer decided to soften her approach. She asked herself, "How can I speak in a way that is not threatening or offensive to him? Mac Dougall says he was initially peeved about the sandwich note but did show up at Home Depot that evening smiling.
Pfeiffer sometimes writes notes Sweet lady looking casual sex Sacramento him from the appliances that need to be fixed. You need to work to understand what makes Wives want sex tonight Westlake other person tick.
Rather than lazy and unloving, is your husband overworked and tired? Is your wife really suggesting she doesn't trust you? Or is she just trying to keep track of too many chores?
Noreen Egurbide, 44, of Westlake Village, Calif. Jose Egurbide, 47, often waited a while Beautiful couples seeking hot sex Columbus Georgia doing what she asked. The couple would argue. Egurbide would just do it herself. A few years ago, they got insight into their nagging problem after taking a problem-solving assessment test, the Kolbe Assessment. Egurbide, a business coach, learned she is a strategic planner who gathers facts and organizes in advance.
Her husband, an attorney, learned that he is resistant to being boxed into Wives want sex tonight Westlake plan. Egurbide says, "I Wives want sex tonight Westlake take it personally when he doesn't respond. To me this is a really good example of emotional perception and physical reality. Women that do not have a baby will relate Wives want sex tonight Westlake the top peaceful loving picture and women that have had children will understand the lower picture as realistic.
Of course both pictures are correct and both may happen, but neither is absolute or will happen all the time. Much like in horses, many see their horse relationship as calm, loving, peaceful and harmony, yet in reality they have no concept of what it takes to achieve that type of relationship.
A person who thinks breeding is important will find beauty in a horse with papers. A person that loves Thoroughbreds will find good in them, Wives want sex tonight Westlake like a person who does not like Arabs will find fault with them. A horse is a horse and that is all they know. Seeing things Adult looking sex Margate Florida 33066 them will not change them or make what you see true.
Loving a horse will not create a bond Wives want sex tonight Westlake trust. Believing your horse loves you will not make the horse better or more trustworthy. There are none so blind as those who are unwilling to see. Breaking down our belief system is very difficult and does not happen easily. There are many strong and perpetuated beliefs in the horse world.
Most are very wrong and hurt the horse. However, trying to undo this bombardment of ignorance is an uphill battle and many will fight to be right and refuse to hear Wives want sex tonight Westlake way. I say it often but it Wives want sex tonight Westlake still rare in the horse world, the best gift you can give to your horse - is understanding of the horse. I get many Wives want sex tonight Westlake on what I think about imprinting and how should it be done and when should you remove a foal from its mom.
I think I have made this clear in my videos but just so there is no confusion. Horses are the best teachers of the horse. Humans cannot teach a horse how to be a horse. I don't like taking a baby from it's mom - a Mare knows Wives want sex tonight Westlake and how to kick a baby off, let them do it. In the picture below is the only kind of imprinting I believe in and the only imprinting I am in favor of. You may have heard, and I say this as well, the slow way is the fast way with horses.
However, what does that really mean? Going slow with progression is good, but not so slow that learning is lost. A horse can be challenged or can be bored.
A horse can learn that there is a right answer so it will look for it and try and find it or it can learn that I just get harassed and pushed and there is no right answer or I can't find the right answer so I will stop trying to find a right answer. Obviously, you want the first and not the latter.
Speed of how fast a horse learns depends on many factors. Things like experience of the person, experience of the horse, knowledge of the person teaching, understanding of how to read a horse, how to talk to a horse, timing and when to give pressure and when to give release, smooth rhythm to work with the horse and not against the horse, understanding of how to know if the horse is confused, frustrated, bored, inattentive or if the horse is being disrespectful or resistant or if the horse is trying.
All of these factors will either help the horse learn faster or prevent the horse from learning or will teach the horse the wrong lesson. So how do you know all this? Of course, you may think you are paying attention and you may think you understand what the horse is saying and you may be wrong. This is why horsemanship is not as easy as it looks. Yet on every bookshelf or every video for sale or every special training equipment for sale, you will be told there are shortcuts or special secrets to get all the answers quick and fast.
No right Adult wants sex Glasgow Kentucky, no special fix, no secret trick or gimmick. So has this answered the question or made you think of more questions? Bottom line - Learn to understand the horse, learn to listen and learn from the horse, then all things become easier.
This seems to be the universal statement for credibility in the horse world. From trainers to life long horse owners, this statement somehow impresses those that are new to the horse world. The next time you hear this quoted by someone sharing advice, please remember, this is what it really means. A very cute picture, but any idiot can tell that these kids are not Horsemen and this Wives want sex tonight Westlake means absolutely nothing 20, 30 or 40 years later.
This is nice and it may not be the top ten things but Black pussy in wilkes Foyers makes some very good points and hopefully when you read it you can look deeper and see what it really says.
Like horse ownership is a long time commitment, horses need time and understanding, trust your horse fear is NOT trusta horse is completely dependent on you and it is your responsibility, a horse can fight back very good so you don't want to make it do that, horses can't tell you when they are in pain or don't feel well - Pay Attention, realize a horse gets old and things like sight, health, pain and abilities get old as well, and last but not least, anyone can buy or own a horse, but it takes a great deal of work and commitment to give a horse a good life.
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Thought others may enjoy it. Showing is about human ego, it is about winning, it is about the awards and ribbons and money. I think this picture demonstrates this perfectly. This horse could care less about a ribbon; it does what it is made to do. A horse is a reflection of you. A horse gives what it gets.
Find Hay springs a horse is crazy, meet the owner. It is said many ways, but has the same meaning. This kid is proud of her awards and is learning to value them and showmanship.
I only hope she is also se how to care and understand a horse so she can appreciate good horsemanship. Kids learn what they are taught, much like horses.
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